Hey look I understand I get like that too but it says draw near to god and he will draw near to you . So I know this may sound weird but when you get lustful or feel anything other than love peace and understanding and self control, call it out like a demon roaming in you so for example when you get lustful say spirit of lust I rubuke you in Jesus name and even to add on to that we can try to fix problems like pride and other things by ourselves and cmon now we know we can’t do it alone so in those moments start talking to him again it’s like any relationship start building that trust again if you don’t wanna jump in completely and pick up your bible start talking to him and see what happens